Today, Joel, Evelyn and I went to the Women’s March on the Palouse. We walked with women, men, children, clergy and even a few wheelchairs braved the slushy sidewalks of Moscow. We marched to support each other. We marched to send a message. We marched to be an example for Evelyn.
Many people on social media say to get over it and move on. But I’m not sure how, as a mother and a teacher, I should get over the leader of the United States being an awful example of what a human being should act like. I teach my students and Evelyn to use kind words, to talk about their disputes and to treat everyone equally. He does none of this. He is a bully. He is offensive. So today we marched to say that behavior is not okay. He is not the type of person I want my students or child to look up to. He may be the President, but he is not my president.
Some people on social media today asked what we accomplished. Why did we block streets, not go to work or be more productive with our time. We could have volunteered to really make a change. And while I actively volunteer to help make a difference in my community, today was not the day for that. Today was to rise up. Today was to be supported and united with my husband, child, friends and people who also see the need to resist.
Today gave me hope. I checked my Facebook and saw millions of people around the world who stood with me. I stood by my husband, who as a white, middle class male, knows that this is not his fight. He knows that this is my fight. It’s Evelyn’s fight. And he will stand next to me always. My heart is full tonight.